{"id":9974,"date":"2016-09-27T09:44:09","date_gmt":"2016-09-27T13:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mayahoodblog.com\/?p=9974"},"modified":"2016-09-24T21:47:33","modified_gmt":"2016-09-25T01:47:33","slug":"lets-end-meal-time-mom-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mayahoodblog.com\/lets-end-meal-time-mom-guilt\/","title":{"rendered":"Lets end meal-time mom guilt!"},"content":{"rendered":"
Mom guilt… you instantly have it when you become a mom. Or I should say, when your child is born and you become a mom, mom guilt becomes part of your new identity. It’s a crazy phenomenon due to\u00a0both nurture and nature. We naturally feel guilty but we also receive a lot of pressure from society as a whole to be perfect (hello… Pinterest & Instagram). It’s no wonder moms are constantly struggling to find the time to “do it all”.<\/p>\n
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I remember when Kyle was born and I joined a mom group. All of the moms were so amazing and helpful and supportive but I couldn’t help but feel guilty when they all spoke about feeding their children organic food or food made from scratch. I, on the other hand, was all about the baby jars. It was quick and easy and having a child with colic, I didn’t have much time for anything else. On one hand, my kid was fed and he was happy, so I should have been content with that but on the other hand, I felt guilty for not making the food from scratch or at least buying organic.<\/p>\n
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More recently, I felt the mom guilt when my son’s school sent a letter home advising parents not to send packaged snacks and treats to school. They sited environmental concerns and healthy options as part of the reason (which I agree with), but again, it made me feel guilty. I don’t have time to prepare home-made snacks at home. I barely have time to pack my child’s lunch. They should just thank me for that! I know it all comes from a good place, but I can’t help but feel guilty every time I pack my son a packaged snack. Although sometimes, I take the snack out of the package and put it in a reusable snack bag just to make myself feel better (oh the crazy things parents do)!<\/p>\n