{"id":13344,"date":"2018-09-25T09:33:05","date_gmt":"2018-09-25T13:33:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mayahoodblog.com\/?p=13344"},"modified":"2018-09-25T09:51:50","modified_gmt":"2018-09-25T13:51:50","slug":"how-i-got-my-baby-sleeping-through-the-night-by-week-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mayahoodblog.com\/how-i-got-my-baby-sleeping-through-the-night-by-week-12\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Got My Baby Sleeping Through The Night by Week 12"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is a guest post submitted by\u00a0Stacy Karol. Mother to one boy who rules the house and co-author of The Dream Feed Method<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hours after our son was born, my husband and I sat in the delivery room debating what to name him. One of those names was \u2018Henry\u2019, which means: \u201cRuler of the house.\u201d I chuckled to myself, thinking: could there be a more fitting name for a baby? <\/em><\/p>\n

We didn\u2019t end up naming him Henry (though I still adore that name). But now that he\u2019s a clumsy 18-month old who\u2019s just recently learned to employ all octaves of his voice, it\u2019s plain to see that he is in many ways the ruler of this<\/em> house. Why else would I willingly scrape dried sweet potato from the kitchen floor?<\/p>\n

But there is one area of our little lives in which I totally rule. Ever since our son was just ten weeks old, he has slept twelve hours a night. Every night. This has meant that between the hours of 6:30 pm and 6:30 am, our home (and our lives) feel a little bit more ours<\/em>. This is a concept I could not have fathomed seventeen short months ago, when I was in the throes of early motherhood and holding on for dear life.<\/p>\n

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People warned me about the sleepless nights, but nobody talked about what that would mean for my days, which I floated through in a jet-lagged state (minus any epic tales from international travel). The sleep deprivation had taken a toll on even the simplest of pleasures: dinner table conversation with my husband and…Netflix. But, just four weeks in, all of that started to change – For the better.<\/p>\n

With our one-month old son healthy and steadily gaining weight, my husband and I embarked on six weeks of sleep training using the Dream Feed Method. What I knew was that this approach would get our son sleeping twelve hours by twelve weeks, without \u2018crying it out.\u2019 What I didn\u2019t<\/em> know was that this would also bring my husband and I closer together as co-parents – an incredible side effect, which we\u2019re still reaping the benefits of.<\/p>\n

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Maker:S,Date:2017-9-25,Ver:6,Lens:Kan03,Act:Lar02,E-Y<\/p><\/div>\n

The Dream Feed Method is simple in concept, but it does require a little bit of pre-planning and a commitment to consistency. It\u2019s modeled around four key steps:<\/p>\n

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  1. Start in the first four months.<\/strong> Somewhere around the end of the fourth month, babies settle into a routine that imprints itself, becoming a baseline pattern that they will naturally gravitate to for the next several years. You want that pattern to be a nice long night\u2019s sleep.<\/li>\n
  2. Introduce Top-Up Bottles.<\/strong> Babies tend to sleep longer if their belly is full (simple, right?). Yet, commonly mothers\u2019 milk supply drops in the evening hours. So add a bottle of expressed milk or formula after that last feed of the day. Your baby will take only as much as she wants, and it will set her up for a longer stretch of sleep. (Bonus: this is a great way for your partner to get involved in the bedtime routine)<\/li>\n
  3. Pre-empt Crying with Dream Feed. <\/strong>Shortly before your baby is likely to wake for a feed, you\u2019ll smoothly lift him from his crib and gently tickle his upper lip with the nipple of the bottle (while a little trickier, this can also be done while breastfeeding). He\u2019ll instinctually open his mouth and begin sucking. Many babies can take a full feed while still \u2018sleeping,\u2019 which makes the put-down a piece of cake.<\/li>\n
  4. Dream Feed slightly earlier each night. <\/strong>This is where the magic happens. Instead of simply hoping your baby sleeps a little longer with each feeding until you magically win the \u201cmy baby is a great sleeper\u201d lottery, you\u2019re going to actively guide him. You\u2019ll consistently nudge that dream feed earlier and earlier until it folds into the feeding before it.\n

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    Maker:S,Date:2017-9-25,Ver:6,Lens:Kan03,Act:Lar02,E-Y<\/p><\/div><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    The Dream Feed Method<\/em> is based on the approach of Jana Hartzell, a well-known night nurse with a tender and common-sense approach to sleep training. During her career, she successfully helped hundreds of parents get their babies to sleep through the night. Ready to give it a try? You can order the book on Amazon.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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    The Dream Feed Method<\/em> provides a plan for parents to get their child sleeping from dusk \u2018til dawn within the first four months of baby\u2019s life without \u201ccrying-it-out\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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