I’m not sure what la-la land I was living in pre-kids, but I had this unrealistic notion of what life with a child would be like. I just pictured my life as it was… PLUS baby. I imagined it would be awesome PLUS baby in tow. Totally fun and chilled PLUS baby in tow, etc.. etc… You get the picture.
I clearly remember telling my husband how I can’t wait to be off on mat-leave so I’ll have ‘TIME’ (hahahahahhahaha) to explore various areas and cute neighborhoods around Toronto. I had grand plans to meet up with friends, relax in local coffee shops or at the park, hold weekly picnic dates, and so on.
Of course, reality was not even a fraction of anything stated above. Now that I think about it… I didn’t REALLY think about life with a baby. I didn’t even know there would be sleepless nights. I guess that’s what you get for being one of the first in your group of friends to have kids. Sometimes ignorance is bliss… until it hits you in the face like a load of bricks.
Obviously parenting is not the worst! Yes, it’s hard and it’s all about putting someone else’s needs before yours, but it’s absolutely amazing too. It’s just not what I imagined (is it for anyone I wonder?). Parenting is a series of ups and downs, wins and losses, high points and lows, happy times and ugly cries… all wrapped up in a nice bow! If nothing else, and as my blog clearly shows, it is relatable. Not one mom has ever gone through an experience that no other mom has ever gone through. There’s just no such thing. No matter how little or insignificant that experience might be, another mom can relate to it.
That’s why I can’t stop laughing when I’m watching the new short series Newborn Moms by CBC Punchline. I love the Ferber ninja episode. I think we can all relate to the struggle of deciding whether or not to sleep train, and which method we should use or if we should just keep co-sleeping. Except at our home, when we were sleep training, I was the “strong” one who refused to let in to our son’s cries while my husband was the softy. The funniest is how when the baby IS finally asleep, we always worry about the WHAT IF worst case scenario. I had that exact same feeling recently when my one year old didn’t wake up at his usual time of 5:30 AM.
This series doesn’t pass judgment regardless of your parenting style or philosophy. There’s no preaching here. Instead, it shows us how perfectly funny our imperfections can be. Personally, when I look back at this time we lovingly refer to as “being in the trenches”, I’d rather laugh. This series captures those moments perfectly in a lighthearted way.
You can check out all nine episodes of Newborn Moms HERE. Episodes are only a minute to three minutes in length. So grab some wine, cozy up and enjoy a few minutes of alone time being entertained (you’ve earned it)!
Disclosure: I received compensation for this post however, the stories and opinions are always my own. You can bet I sat in bed laughing and shaking my head in agreement while watching these episodes.
paula schuck says
Chuckling. I think this sounds like a great series for new parents and even for those of us who are not so NEW anymore. Love the thought behind it. Also I totally relate to the start of this post. Yes, I assumed it would be a big picnic too. LOL.
Heather Lynne says
There are definitely parts of parenting that I never saw coming! My Internet connection is being annoying right now & I can’t watch the video. I just got to see the first few words & I can tell it’s gonna be a funny one. I’m walking away & leaving this open so I can hopefully watch later 😉
Jenna Em says
My oldest son didn’t have his nap until he was FIVE months old. Seems impossible, right? He still is a very poor sleeper, 10 years later…and I don’t think this will ever change.
Jenna Em says
My son did not have his first nap until he was FIVE months old. Seems impossible, right? 10 years later and he’s still a poor sleeper…and I don’t think this will ever change.
littlemisskateco says
I have watched a couple of episodes so far. I feel like there is something in each one that moms can relate to one time or another. Plus I enjoyed the small break from my “reality” 🙂
Carla WorkingMommyJournal says
LOL! I will definitely have to check this out! Parenting is an ever changing condition. Somedays we have to parent a certain way and other days the rules are out the door! I have to check out these episodes, sounds hilarious!
Marie-Eve says
I can’t wait to watch these episodes!
Tina F says
My kids did not sleep through the night til they were 15 months old and naps hmm they did not like staying alseep long at all.BUT that changed when they got alot older they go to sleep late and love to sleep in I have not watched this show at all but does look like it would be hillarious to watch
hmrcarlson says
I have never heard of this. It sounds hilarious!
kathy downey says
I think i was blessed with sleepers,after 6/7 weeks my kids would go down around midnight and sleep till around 7am…….but there are some horror stories i know from others who had kids that hardly slept….Motherhood is for the strong
mags c (@magscheung) says
haha what a funny show! never heard of it.